seven things

Well hey there, little blog! It’s been a while, hasn’t it?

I’d all but abandoned this blog when the busy season at my job started and I basically lived at the office. Afterwards, I was low on motivation and creative energy (and maybe feeling a little inadequate compared to some of the ultra-shiny bloggers out there with jillions of readers and glamorous sponsors). But my friend Annie recently jumped back on the blog bandwagon and reminded me that blogging should be fun and doesn’t have to be perfect!

I’m starting my grand re-entrance into the blog world with a quick ice-breaker. In no particular order, here are seven things I’m loving lately.

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1. The response to Hurricane Harvey

How could I not start with this? I love Texas and Texans. It has been so heartwarming to see people coming together, putting their differences aside, and, in some cases, literally dropping everything to help. My church’s worship leader borrowed a boat and headed down to Houston with a friend to get stranded families out of their homes and onto dry land. Austin Pets Alive! has had to turn away volunteers and is literally out of space for donations because so many people have showed up to help dogs and cats rescued from the coast. The residents of Rockport, Massachusetts, are raising $5,000 to help Rockport, Texas. And for once, the disaster has mostly escaped being politicized.

This is what Texas — and America — is about.

If you’re still looking for a way to support communities affected by Harvey, or a way to help specifically with the long-term recovery process, I hope you’ll consider contributing to the official Rockport-Fulton Chamber GoFundMe. Rockport holds a special place in my heart since my family has been going there for vacation since my dad was a kid. (My first fish below!)


2. Pilates

I stumbled upon The Balanced Life while searching for at-home workout videos. I had always assumed Pilates required über-flexibility and was maybe a little snooty…but I am so glad I was wrong! I’ve been doing 20-30 minutes almost every day since March and have gained so much strength, stamina, and muscle tone. “I can’t wait to get home so I can work out” is now an actual thought that goes through my head.

Robin does an amazing job of making Pilates accessible and fun. I love her $19/month membership program, but she also has free videos on YouTube that are fantastic to dip your toes in. Better yet, join the free 7-day Back to the Mat challenge! If you’re looking to change up your workout routine (Or start it. No judgment here!), check her out.

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3. Harry Potter audiobooks

Audible now carries the entire Harry Potter series narrated by Jim Dale. If you grew up a Potterhead, you might recognize his voice from the cheesy (but, let’s be honest, amazing) PC video games from like 2002. Listening to his very comforting voice reading one of my favorite stories has been such a delightful way to brighten up my commute downtown!

4. Grapefruit sparkling water

I hate grapefruit, but for some reason grapefruit sparkling water hits the spot on these toasty summer days!

5. Sunshine

Y’all, I’m like a flower. I love sunshine. I need sunshine. There is nothing, in my opinion, like waking up to bright, cheery sunlight filtering through the blinds and spending every possible moment outside soaking up that warmth.

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6. TED Talks

I feel like I am a decade behind the rest of the Internet, but I just realized that TED Talks really are awesome. Here are a few I’ve watched lately that stuck with me.

I’m 17 // Own your face // The power of introverts // How to gain control of your free time // The wait is sexy // Looks aren’t everything. Believe me, I’m a model. // Why you should define your fears instead of your goals

7. Simplicity

This season is all about simplicity for me. Trimming down our stress and our stuff; spending more time being quiet, creating things, growing good habits. I feel settled and in a comfortable routine more than I have since high school. I guess that comes with being a quarter-century old, hitting my groove at work, and clarifying what is really important to me.

I hope to be back on this humble blog soon. Have a great week, friends!

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a carb lover’s guide to going gluten free

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I love carbs. All the carbs. Pasta. Cookies. Bread. And not just squishy white bread — all manner of grainy wheat bread too. And pizza.


My husband has chronic allergies, and when our physician assistant friend mentioned that going gluten-free often helps, even if you’re not technically allergic to gluten, he laughed. We couldn’t possibly live without bread, we thought! But we came around and decided to try it for six weeks as an experiment.

The Results

I was skeptical of the gluten-free phenomenon at first, but even in the first few days I found that I felt lighter, even when I ate pretty heavy food. I got headaches less often, and I felt less draggy in the afternoons. I felt like I had more energy (although, for full disclosure, I’ve also been better about moving my lazy self around since the new year). I didn’t understand why, but I liked it.

We ultimately decided not to stay gluten-free — it had only a marginal effect on hubby’s allergies — but I’m leaning towards consuming less gluten than we used to. First, it’s just better for you, because eating less bread forces you to eat more fruits and vegetables and unprocessed food. Second, it was actually pretty easy to put tasty meals together. I found that I didn’t miss food containing gluten all that much.

For those of you interested in reducing or eliminating gluten from your diet, here are five tips that helped me, a carb lover to the core, survive and actually enjoy our six-week experiment.

1. Focus on what you can have.

You know what you’re not going to miss out on when you go gluten-free? Literally all Mexican food. As long as you opt for corn tortillas, there is like zero flour ever in Mexican food. As a native-born Texan who could eat her weight in enchiladas, this makes me a happy camper.

I made a list of food groups and dishes that do not contain gluten and referred to it frequently. Whenever I got bogged down in self-pity that I couldn’t stuff my face with Panera mac and cheese, I would go back to that list and be reminded of all of the yummy things I could eat instead.

For example, the following items from my go-to recipe binder were already completely gluten-free: my above-mentioned world-famous enchiladas, red beans and rice, posole, pot roast, frittata, stuffed bell peppers, carnitas, one-pan Greek chicken and veggies, chili baked potatoes, most soups, stir fry (with tamari instead of soy sauce), and migas. Not to mention every salad ever and every combination of meat/fish, rice/potatoes, and veggies ever.

Also my mom’s Christmas fudge, which could be the only dessert I eat for the rest of my life and I’d be pleased as punch.

2. Make simple substitutions.

You don’t have to find all new recipes, although that’s always fun. I bet if you flipped through your recipe collection you could find a few that are way easy to adjust.

For example, my jambalaya couscous recipe can be made gluten-free by switching from couscous to quinoa (I tried it, and it’s just as delicious!) or rice. As mentioned above, you can use corn tortillas instead of flour for your Tex-Mex fix. You can substitute corn starch or corn meal for flour breading. And with gluten-free pasta, my list of eligible recipes nearly doubled. Banza chickpea pasta is actually delicious (plus loaded with protein)!

3. But don’t buy gluten-free things just because they’re gluten-free.

I first read this recommendation on The Penny Hoarder, and it was incredibly helpful. It’s easy to feel like you have to buy a lot of new products to make your pantry gluten-free, especially in the overwhelming gluten-free aisle of the grocery store. But you don’t need seventeen kinds of flour and crackers made out of weird grains you’ve never heard of. (What is sorghum anyway??) Not only do those foods cost a lot more than their gluten-full twins, you often just don’t need them.

I recommend starting out with “regular” food. Eat like you would normally eat, just without bread or pasta. You won’t miss gluten as much as you think you will! And when you do, you can add in gluten-free replacements as you need them a little at a time.

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For example, here’s what I ate on our first gluten-free day. Scrambled eggs with sausage and bell peppers and an orange; tacos, chips, and guacamole; and broccoli beef. No weird fake flours here.

We regularly bought only four gluten-free alternative products.

  1. I missed having toast for breakfast almost instantly and found a gluten-free sandwich bread I liked.
  2. We added in lentil chips for lunchbox snacks…
  3. and rice crackers as vehicles for hummus or almond butter when we got tired of chopping vegetables.
  4. We tried a few kinds of gluten-free pasta and settled on Banza as our favorite. Even then, we only ate pasta occasionally.

You don’t need a total pantry overhaul.

4. Buy lots of fruit and vegetables.

I’ve always loved fruit, but before going gluten-free I admit I focused more of my grocery shopping on the snack aisles than I should have. During our experiment, I doubled the time I spent in the produce section and made sure I picked up at least four or five fruits and vegetables each to have on hand during the week. That way we would have no excuse for moaning and groaning about having “nothing” to snack on.

Having extra vegetables handy also helps make more flavorful and interesting salads. Bored with lettuce? Top it with grilled chicken, crumbly cotija cheese, a jillion extra vegetables, a handful of chili powder, and some kind of salad dressing with lime, and you have yourself a delicious southwest salad.

5. Get your vitamins.

I am not a health care professional and this should not be construed as medical advice. But one thing that came up several times in my research was calcium deficiency, which can be a problem for people with Celiac. Most wheat flour is apparently enriched with calcium and other vitamins, and missing out on that is no bueno. Just to be on the safe side, I made sure we always had milk, orange juice, and other vitamin-filled items on our grocery list.

If you’re concerned that you might not get enough vitamins, please talk to your doctor!

There you have it. These five tips helped me tackle six weeks with no gluten — and while I’m back to eating it occasionally, it was a valuable experiment and I definitely got into some healthier eating habits along the way.

Have you thought about going gluten-free? Gluten-free friends, what other tips do you have for carb lovers like me?

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a year of intention


2016 was a year of learning new things. Mostly learning new things about myself.

Learning that I like some things I thought I didn’t: coffee, local politics, animal print shoes, reading the Bible, running, purple grapes, occasionally wearing yoga pants.

Learning that I don’t like some things I thought I did: being busy, Twitter, infinity scarves, living near shopping and restaurants, most music written after the 1970s.

Learning — or really just solidifying — what’s important to me.

2017 will be a year of living intentionally.

I’ve noticed a pattern in my life. When I make poor choices (usually small ones, but poor nonetheless), 99% of the time it’s because I was operating on autopilot and not thinking carefully about my actions or words.

I’ve also noticed a consistent call in my Bible study to “be self-controlled.” 1 Peter goes on and on about it.

“Therefore, prepare your minds for action; be self-controlled; set your hope fully on the grace to be given you when Jesus Christ is revealed. As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance.” 1 Peter 1:13-14

“Therefore be clear-minded and self-controlled so that you can pray.” 1 Peter 4:7

“Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” 1 Peter 5:8

It’s like, OK, God, I get it, JEEZ.

I don’t really make New Year’s resolutions. I’ve set a “word of the year” a few times and enjoyed that experience, but this year I’m taking it a step further. 

My brother-in-law got me the Powersheets Intentional Goal Planner for Christmas, and I have absolutely loved using its goal-setting questions to brainstorm, doodle, answer prompts, and figure out exactly what matters to me and how I can pursue it next year.


My goals for 2017 are:

  1. Earnestly seek the Lord because he created me for more than coasting through life.
  2. Be a cheerful, selfless, supportive wifey because two are stronger than one.
  3. Work hard and well because my team worked hard to hire me and good work is hard work.
  4. Cultivate cheer, optimism, and confidence because there is so much good in this world to get bogged down in bad attitudes.
  5. Live healthy because the Bible says our bodies are temples and I only get one.
  6. Spend with intention and be content with less because memories are greater than things.
  7. Live in the moment and soak it all in because time is precious and I don’t want this year — the year I turn a quarter-century old — to fly by before I’ve even noticed it.


2017 means more family time, more prayer, more creating, more sweating, more reading, more connecting, more giving, more resting.

It means less Internet, less criticism, less hurtling through the day on one hand, less laziness on the other, less selfishness, less worrying.

It means living on purpose and living with purpose.

2016, it’s been real. 2017, Let’s do this.


Note: This post is not sponsored. I just really enjoyed the planner and wanted to share the process!

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